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Topic: Strangers are not strange
Speaker: Rex
The stranger…it’s dangerous or exciting to talk to the stranger? Who maybe a madman or maybe your soul of mate? You will never know who exactly the next stranger you may meet on the train or by street.
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As far as I am concerned, to talk to the strangers basically are not always a negative things to do, talking to stranger might be weird thing to do for some people who always confine their steps to tiny, dark and dull world. They are afraid of screwing up whenever they want to make friends with others, but the truth often turns out different from what they though. In fact, as long as they, the chicken, can conquer the unnecessarily fear to speak up. The outside of the blue sky may show up on their side.
So, what’s the secret to control the fear, are there any tips for that? There are couples of way to work it out. First, you should assert yourself. And try to answer all the questions that I’m going to ask, what typical person you think you are? What kind of personality that u think you have? Do you really know yourself well not only your outlook appearance but also your mind? You can get on quite well with strangers only when you know yourself well, the stranger may judge you from the way that you presented to them, in the another way you do not even know yourself, how can you expect them to give you a smile! Now, we know, it’s important to know yourself well and also express yourself to other and look at this as an adventure. Just go for it! Just Do it! Do it as no one is watching you!
Actually, I was proud of myself, take my example, now I have had a violin personal tutor who I met in the MDL, and before meeting him, I was depressive about that I couldn’t find violin tutor! But I did conquer the fear of talking to strangers.
Take another instance, one day someone in the corner of the campus change my routine life and enlighten me, after I know the man from the first day, we are on the first-class basis, we even stay up all night long to just talk to each other. And one thing I really appreciate is that he shares every resources that he have owned with me, and toastmaster club is one of those things he offer me, since I have the opportunity to stand on the stage running my presentation, it’s all because of him! Bruce! He is one of strangers I met by street. So, do you still think to talk to the stranger is a negative thing to do?
If your answer were yes! Then I would suggest you that go to watch a movie ‘’Holiday’’ the movie is talking about two female strangers experience a wonderful and special life from exchanging their life. And you might get a feedback from the movie that the most beautiful things in the world may just hide beside you, so go for it! Ok! I am gonna show you the two different situations and you’ll know the result and choose one you wanna be! First one! It sucks! Another one, “see! Which one are you gonna be?”
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